Friday, February 05, 2010

Depression: bad for you and your heart

Depression: Bad for you and your heart

 By Michael J. Salamon

Depression can be a debilitating disorder for many people and it comes in several different forms, some more severe than others.

To simplify the categories of this mood disorder, depression can be understood according to the following easy paradigm. Situational depression is a change in mood that is often referred to as the blues that comes and goes; it is the mildest form. If the blues last for an extended period of time this may be become a chronic depression, despite the fact that it is relatively mild. Then there are the more severe forms of depression that are often incapacitating. There are times when depression comes with anxiety and a pervasive sense of hopelessness and times when a mood disorder is evidenced almost exclusively with sleep and eating disturbances and a complete lack of energy.

All types of depression are treatable but too often people suffering from depression dismiss their symptoms or get the wrong care.

In early January of this year a number of news organizations reported the results of a study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association. The teasers used by the media implied that antidepressant medications do not work to treat depression and that they are significantly overprescribed. But that is not quite what the study said. What the actual study did report was that some older antidepressants may not be as effective for treating very mild depression which is in keeping with the correct protocol.

The news reports also failed to mention that most people seeking care for depression from mental health specialists were likely to receive psychotherapy unless their depression was very severe, in which case they received a combination of therapy and medication, also in keeping with proper protocol.

And most importantly, not reported by the media was the fact that not receiving proper care for a mood disorder may exacerbate a person’s depressive symptoms but perhaps even more critically, untreated depression may cause other problems.

Over the years, it has been observed that people with heart trouble are especially at risk for developing anxiety and depression. This makes sense because whenever there is a major life change or illness and pain, and cardiac problems are among these, depression is a common co-occurrence. A National Institute of Mental Health study reported that approximately 20% of people with a cardiac diagnosis also have a diagnosable depression. More recent research suggests that not only can the pain of heart disease cause depression but depression can cause heart disease. While it makes sense that being told you have a bad heart or experiencing the chest pains that come with it can make you depressed it also is clear that being depressed can cause physical illness, and this is how it works:

Depressed individuals are loathe to exercise.

They often have a poor diet, limited social contact and a variety of other negative lifestyle habits, all of which contribute to the development of heart disease.

People who are depressed have higher levels of stress which can, in turn, lead to high blood pressure, irregular heart rhythms, damaged arteries and a weaker immune system, all of which underlie cardiac disease.

Having untreated depression has been shown to increase inflammatory markers in the blood (for example, C-reactive protein), and increase platelet reactivity both of which are high risk factors for cardiovascular illness.

People who already have a cardiac disorder and also suffer from untreated depression have an increased risk for further heart attacks or other cardiac problems.

One especially important study found that ongoing untreated depression after recovering from a heart attack increases the risk of death within six months of that first heart attack from three percent to 17 percent.

There may not be a clear link that proves that untreated depression actually causes heart attacks but so much evidence currently exists that the American Heart Association has recommended that all cardiac patients be screened for depression.

The American Psychological Association notes that depression and cardiac disease are inextricably linked and is in the process of refining the criterion for cardiac rehabilitation psychology. The emphasis is on screening and intervening for individuals who have a history of cardiac disease to monitor and aggressively treat co-occurring depressions. Perhaps the most important issue is that individuals who suffer from the symptoms and signs of depression get the proper treatment for it. It’s not only good for your mood but your heart as well.



Dr. Salamon, a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, is the founder and director of ADC Psychological Services in Hewlett, NY and a Board member of The Awareness Center. He is the author of numerous articles and several psychological tests. His recent books include, The Shidduch Crisis: Causes and Cures, published by Urim Publications and Every Pot Has a Cover: A Proven Guide to Finding, Keeping and Enhancing the Ideal Relationship, published by Rowman & Littlefield. His new book on Abuse will be available March, 2011.

If you save one life, you save the entire world . . .

Dear Friends:
As you may imagine, running a non-profit during these economical times is quite the challenge   The Awareness Center is doing everything possible to keep our expenses down so that we can remain a force in the fight to end sexual violence in ALL Jewish communities around the globe.  
There’s some exciting things that will be happening over the next few months.  The Awareness Center is very grateful to find three dedicated volunteers who are starting chapters in Philadelphia and Brooklyn.  Sarah Porter is the chapter leader of our Philadelphia group.  Jeneba Charkey and Israel Appel are leading our chapter in Brooklyn.  Over the last several months they have been going through training to be self-help group leaders for their chapters.  If things go as planned, sometime in March The Awareness Center will be starting two FREE self-help/networking groups for adult survivors of sex crimes.  One group will be meeting in Philadelphia, the other in Brooklyn.  

As you may already be aware, The Awareness Center is going to be represented during two different workshops at the upcoming MaleSurvivor’s International Conference in New York (March 19 - 21, 2010).  The only catch is that we need to raise $1000.00 for travel expenses.  
No donation is too small or too great to accept.  Every dollar donated is greatly appreciate.  and allow us to help those who have been sexually victimized along with their family members, friends and the entire world -- for generations to come.  
If you are able to help please send your tax deductible donations 
The Awareness Center, Inc.
P.O. Box 4824
Skokie, IL 60076
To make a donation using a credit card go www.theawarenesscenter.org and click on the donate button on the upper right hand side of our web page and click on the donation button.
Sincerely,

Vicki Polin, MA, LCPC



Founder and CEO

Thursday, February 04, 2010

URGENT MESSAGE: From the Survivor of Rabbi Israel Weingarten

Recent Rumors about the Survivor of Rabbi ISRAEL WEINGARTEN


I recently heard rumors that some people are spreading in the communities that " I regret and take back the things I did in recent months about my X father"

let this be known to EVERYONE, and publish this please especially to victims and pedophiles !! The rumor is a LIE! If I could report him again, and go through this again, I would do it 100 times more and make sure he is prosecuted and sentenced to the fullest according the law. There is nothing I take back and it is the best thing I did in my life. I am proud that I had the strength to go through this.

Please publish this to ANY blog you wish to counter to the rumors spread.

thank you!



Click here for more on the case

Tuesday, February 02, 2010

An Inspirational Song For Healing From Incest

An Inspirational Song For Healing From Incest
by Vicki Polin

Over the last few days I've been dealing with a several incest survivors who have touched my heart in a way that brings tears to my eyes not knowing how to help relinquish their pain and isolation from not having a family.  All too many survivors who were abused in the home are forced into growing up in foster care and never knowing what it is to have a real family.  The following song kept playing in my head as I tried to find healing words to console with.  

I remember when I was a pre-teen I used to think this song was pretty dorky.  Now I see it had a major impact on my own life.  My hope is that this song will be an inspiration to survivors and those who care about them. 
I'll admit that when it came out back in 1972, I remember making fun of it. I think I was eleven or twelve.  I just wasn't into an operatic voice, yet for me this is the way it should be sung. 





"The Impossible Dream"
from MAN OF LA MANCHA (1972)
music by Mitch Leigh and lyrics by Joe Darion
To dream the impossible dream
To fight the unbeatable foe
To bear with unbearable sorrow
To run where the brave dare not go
To right the unrightable wrong
To love pure and chaste from afar
To try when your arms are too weary
To reach the unreachable star

This is my quest
To follow that star
No matter how hopeless
No matter how far

To fight for the right
Without question or pause
To be willing to march into Hell
For a heavenly cause

And I know if I'll only be true
To this glorious quest
That my heart will lie peaceful and calm
When I'm laid to my rest

And the world will be better for this
That one man, scorned and covered with scars
Still strove with his last ounce of courage
To reach the unreachable star 

Saturday, January 30, 2010

Look What They've Done To Our People Ma . . .

Look What They've Done To Our People Mamma
By Vicki Polin
The Awareness Center's Daily News Letter - January 30, 2010
 

It's been a zillion years since I heard the following song. While listening to it I couldn't help but think about the advocacy work I've been doing with Jewish survivors of sexual violence for the last 10 years.  

The movement has become so explosive in the Jewish orthodox world and definitely has not gone in the direction I've hoped for.

The question now is how do we take the insanity and change it into something that is healing and empowering for survivors, their families and the entire world? 


At times it feels as if it's the "War of the Worlds".  It's so sad because when I first got started all I really wanted to do was educate our rabbonim, help those who have been sexually victimized find ways to heal; and join forces in hopes of preventing one more person (adult or child) from becoming the next victim of a sex crime.  Instead all we seem to get is game playing from those who are supposed to be our rabbinic and community leaders.

Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Thank you Michael Irving for creating the World's First Monument to Child Abuse Survivors



Case of Rabbi Baruch Lebovitz in the death of Motty Borger, son of Shmuel Borger (PIX News)

Newscast of the case of Rabbi Baruch Lebovitz in the death of Motty Borger, son of Shmuel Borger (PIX News). This news report also features Rabbi Nuchem Rosenberg (member of The Awareness Center's international advisory board), Joseph Diangelo and Joel Engleman.

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Looking for Resources For Jewish Survivors of Sexual Trauma


The Awareness Center is in the process of updating our online "International Resource Guide For Survivors of Sexual Trauma".  




The Awareness Center is in the process of updating our online, International Resource Guide For Jewish Survivors of Sexual Trauma (childhood sexual abuse, sexual assault, rape, marital rape, professional sexual misconduct, clergy sexual abuse, sexual harassment).  We are looking for professionals who are educated and experienced working with survivors for possible inclusion on site.


If you are interested or know someone who fits our criteria for inclusion, please fill out the attached questionnaire or download the form from the link below and return it to us with your CV.  The guide will include various care providers; educators; professional and survivor organizations; holistic health professionals; rabbi’s and outreach workers; legal and medical professionals that work with and/or have experience with JEWISH SURVIVORS OF SEXUAL TRAUMA (including adults adolescents and children).  Please feel free to make copies of this form and share it others.  


Filling out this form does NOT insure inclusion in our directory.  


If you are a survivor and would like to recommend someone who has been helpful to you, contact Vicki Polin at  vickipolin at aol.com for more directions.  Click here to Download Questionnaire








Tuesday, January 19, 2010

Sexual Violence and the National Stalking Awareness Month



Sexual Violence and the National Stalking Awareness Month
© (2010) by Vicki Polin

75% of women who are stalked are also survivors of physical and or sexual abuse/assault.

I know this to be true because I am one of those women.  When I was in my early twenties I was stalked by the man who sexually assaulted me, back then there were no legal definition or laws on the books to protect me from my assailant.  Fortunately, my case was used to help get the stalking laws on the books in Illinois.

At the age of 50 I was once again the victim of an assault in the state of Maryland.  Thank G-d things have changed since I was twenty-three.  Due to the fact that man who assaulted me kept calling me, I had no option but to get an order of protection to stop the harassment.  At least I knew what to do.  Most individuals who are assaulted don't know what constitutes stalking or what to do if this should happen to them.  For that reason I'm sharing the following link that I hope you will share with everyone you know.

If you are assaulted, and or being stalked you have nothing to be ashamed of.  The shame belongs solely with the offender.  If this could happen to me it could happen to anyone.  We all need to be aware of what stalking is, and what you can do about it if it happens to you.

CLICK HERE: National Stalking Awareness Month


Vicki Polin, MA, LCPC is the founder and director of The Awareness Center, which is the international Jewish Coalition Against Sexual Abuse/Assault.  

Monday, January 18, 2010

Abusive clergy destroy children

This isn't the title I would have chosen for the story. I would have said childhood sexual abuse alters the life of children.  I do believe that even though a child was molested, that with the right help they can heal and become healthy productive adults.  The abuse will always be with them, yet they can learn coping skills to deal with the effects if they receive good counseling, by those who really understand trauma.  -- Vicki Polin

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Letter to the Editor

Abusive clergy destroy children
Times Union - January 17, 2010

Rabbi Yaakov Weiss



It saddens me a great deal each time I read about another member of the clergy who is sexually inappropriate with a minor ("Rabbi takes a plea deal," Jan. 12).

What enrages me is that these offenders just get a slap on the hand for assaulting our children, especially after they attempted to manipulate the child into silence.

These sorts of actions will change the child's life forever. As we know, many of those who have been molested as children grow up with low self-esteem, have issues with addictions and make suicide attempts.

What will it take for our court systems to take these sorts of criminal behaviors seriously? Why is it that those who are caught embezzling funds or are involved with income tax fraud get harsher sentences than some of those who molest our children?

The message that is sent is that money is more important than the lives of our kids.


VICKI POLIN

Founder and CEO

The Awareness Center, Inc. (the international Jewish Coalition Against Sexual Abuse/Assault)

Baltimore, Md.


Update: Case of Cantor Michael Segelstein and Chabad of Southern Nevada

Update: Case of Cantor Michael Segelstein and Chabad of Southern Nevada

Las Vegas Mayor,  Oscar B. Goodman and Rabbi Shea Harlig

SUN EDITORIAL:


The law and religion

Churches shouldn’t be able to hide behind First Amendment in abuse cases

Las Vegas SunMonday, Jan. 18, 2010 





The Nevada Supreme Court has been asked to decide to what extent churches are liable in cases involving sexual abuse committed by clergy. The case raises the issue of whether the First Amendment protects churches from these types of lawsuits.
As Steve Kanigher reported in Wednesday’s Las Vegas Sun, the case is rare. Most lawsuits against churches, as those against the Roman Catholic Church, have been settled, so courts have not had to handle this issue.
The case before the Supreme Court was filed by Theressa Ramani, who says she was assaulted in 2001 by a cantor associated with Chabad of Southern Nevada and Chabad of Summerlin. The man pleaded guilty the next year to open and gross lewdness. Ramani said she and her son were then harassed by Chabad after she complained about the attack.
In 2003 she filed a lawsuit in District Court in Clark County against the Orthodox synagogues, as well as some rabbis and individuals associated with the organization. The suit was eventually thrown out because a judge says she didn’t show a direct link between Chabad and the attack and didn’t prove that the man was an employee of the synagogues.
She appealed in 2007, and the case gained stature because of the issues involved. The Roman Catholic bishops of Las Vegas and Reno and the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints have joined the synagogues in fighting the case. Ramani has been joined by the Jewish Board of Advocates for Children, Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests and the National Association to Prevent Sexual Abuse of Children.
Chabad and the churches argue religious organizations are protected by the First Amendment from these types of lawsuits. They say if the court holds churches liable for the actions of volunteers or congregants, it would be disastrous for their charities and operations because they would be tied up in expensive litigation. Responding to Ramani’s claims of harassment, the churches say they have a right to exercise discipline or even expel members.
Ramani and the advocacy groups say churches must be held liable for their actions and to exclude them would allow abuse to go unchecked. They point to documented abuse in the Catholic Church by some priests, in which church officials knew about allegations of abuse for years. They argue that the churches are trying to “twist the First Amendment into a refuge for harmful behavior.”
Churches do have the right to exercise their religious freedom and they do have the right to discipline or expel members. The question in this case, though, is whether the group is liable in an abuse case.
The religious provision in the First Amendment was intended to keep the government from establishing a state religion and to allow people the freedom to worship as they choose. It shouldn’t be construed as a blanket protection from liability. If clergy or a church engage in or allow illegal behavior, they should have to answer for that.
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2007
CALL TO ACTION:  Should a convicted sex offender who's on the national sex offender registry be allowed on Purim to be drunk and performing in front of children? The Chabad of Southern Nevada thinks it's ok.
Cantor Michael Segelstein is the one on the right wearing a black suit.

Michael Alan Segelstein is currently on both the Flordia and National Sex Offender registries.
Segelstein was originally arraigned on one count each of attempted sexual assault, battery with intent to commit sexual assault and open and gross lewdness. He pled guilty as part of a plea agreement to open or gross lewdness, received one year suspended sentence with conditions and court ordered into counseling and was discharged from probation on December 2, 2005.

It appears that Michael Segelstein is an honored member of Chabad of Southern Nevada. Please contact Rabbi Shea Harlig and let your voice be heard!
Rabbi Shea Harlig, Director
Email: chabadlv@aol.com
1261 S. Arville Street, Las Vegas, Nevada 89102

Thursday, January 07, 2010

Mazel Tov to Shannon Orand (survivor of "Rabbi" Leib Tropper)





The Awareness Center wants to thank Shannon Orand for her bravery and tenacity.  Shannon was named as one of the 2009 Rape Victim Advocates of the year


The Awareness Center asks that people stand up when Shannon Orand walks in a room as one would do for a rabbi to show honor and respect for this  hero and a role model for other women. 



Jewish Israel would like to wish a heartfelt Mazal Tov to JI member Shannon Orand upon her conversion to Judaism which she received in Israel earlier this week. Welcome to the Jewish people, Rachel (Shannon’s Hebrew name)!






Members of the Beit Din were Chief Rabbi Dov Lior of Hevron, Chief Rabbi Shmuel Eliyahu of Safed, and Rabbi Rafi Ostroff. Another highly respected Rav officiated over the conversion.  To read more click here







Monday, January 04, 2010

Glossary of Initials and Other Professional Degrees, Organiazations & Other Jargon

Glossary of Initials:
Professional Degrees, Organizations  and Other Jargon
(© 1994, Rev. 1996, 1997, 1998, 1999, 2002, 2003) By Vicki Polin ,MA, ATR, LCPC

A.A.T.A
American Art Therapy Association
A.B.A.
American Bar Association
A.B.E.C.S.W.
American Board of Examiners in Clinical Social Work.
A.C.E.P.
Association for Comprehensive Energy Psychology
A.C.S.W.
Academy of Certified Social Worker
ADTA
American Dance Therapy Association
A.D.T.R.
Academy of Dance Therapist Registered
A.M.A.
American Medical Association
A.M.H.C.A.
American Mental Health Counselors Associaton
A.P.A.
American Psychological Association
A.P.A.
American Psychiatric Association
A.S.A.
Assistant States Attorney (can be in either Juvenile and/or Criminal Court)
A.T.R.
Art Therapist Registered
A.T.R.-B.C.
Art Therapist Registered - Board Certified.
AYA
American Yoga Association
B.A.
Bachelor of Arts Degree
B.C.D.
Board Certified Diplomat (given by ABECSW to social workers)
B.S.
Bachelor of Science
B.S.N.
Bachelor of Science in Nursing
B.S.W.
Bachelors Degree in Social Work
C.A.C.
Certified Addictions Counselor
C.A.D.C.
Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor
CCGC
Certified Compulsive Gambling Counselor
C.E.T.
Certified Expressive Therapist
C.R.C.
Certified Rehabilitation Counselor
C.E.U.
Continuing Education Units
C.M.T.
Certified Massage Therapist.
DASA
Department of Alcohol and Substance Abused (Illinois)
D.C.
Doctor of Chiropractic Medicine
D.C.F.S.
Dept. of Children and Family Services (Illinois)
D.C.P.
Department of Child Protection
D.C.S.W.
Diplomate in Clinical Social Work. (Given to Social Workers by the NASW..)
D.D. Dually
DSMIV Diagnosis and/or Developmentally Delayed and/or Chemically Dependent
D. Ed.
Doctorate in Education
Det.
Detective
Dipl. Ac.
Diplomat of Acupuncture
Dipl. Hom.
Diplomat of Homeopathic Medicine
D.N.
Doctor of Napraprathy  or
Doctor of Naturopathy
D.O.
Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine
D.P.M.
Doctor of Podiatric Medicine
Dr.
Doctor (can refer to an DSW, M.D., PhD, PsyD . . . ).
D.S.M.–IV
Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders
D.S.W.
Doctorate in Social Work
DTR
Dance Therapist Registered
Dx
Diagnosis
FICPP
Fellow International College of Prescribing Psychologists
G.A.L.
Guardian Ad Litem. In Illinois, all children who are wards of the state are appointed a G.A.L. by Public Guardian's office. In some counties is the child's attorney in both juvenile and criminal court.
H.L.M.
Honorable Life Member (given to art therapist's by AATA).
Hx
History
IAAP
Illinois Association of Addiction Professionals
I.A.T.A.
Illinois Art Therapy Association.
IAODAPCA
Illinois Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse Professional Certification Association
I.C.A.S.A.
Illinois Coalition Against Sexual Assault
I.C.A.D.V.
Illinois Coalition Against Domestic Violence.
ISSD
The International Society for the Study of Dissociative Disorders
I.T.P.
Individual Treatment Plan
JCASA
Jewish Coalition Against Childhood Sexual Abuse
J.D
Juris Doctor (degree given to an Attorney).
L.A.N. Local Area Network
(Community Mental Health Centers boundaries for funding).
L.C.P.C.
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor (in Illinois, Master Degreed Mental Health Provider.). Can accept most insurance for payment.
L.C.S.W.
Licensed Clinical Social Worker. (in Illinois, Master Degreed Mental Health Provider.). Can accept most insurance for payment.
L.C.S.W
Licensed Certified Social Worker (in Maryland, Master Degreed Mental Health Provide). Can accept most insurance for payment.
L.C.S.W-C
Licensed Certified Social Worker - Clinical (in Maryland, Master Degreed Mental Health Provide). Can accept most insurance for payment.
L.D.
Licensed Dietitian.
L.L.M.
License of Law (requies a Masters Degree in Law).
L.M.H.C.
Licensed Mental Health Counselor (Requires Masters Degreed)
L.M.F.T.
Licensed Marriage, Family & Child Counselor.
L.P.C.
Licensed Professional Counselor (in Illinois, Bachelor Degree Provider).
L.P.N.
Licensed Practical Nurse
L.P.H.A.
Licensed Practitioner of the Healing Arts
L.S.W.
Licensed Social Worker
M.A.
Masters of Arts (can be in any field)
M.A.A.T
Masters of Arts in Art Therapy (From some programs).
M.C.A.S.A.
Maryland Coalition Against Sexual Assault
M.Ed
Masters of Education.
M.F.C.C.
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor.
M.D.
Medical Doctor
MDiv.
Masters of Divinity.
MHC
Mental Health Center
MI
Mental Illness/Mentally Ill.
MISA
Mentally Ill/Substance Abuse.
MPH
Masters of Public Health.
MS
Masters of Science (can be in any field).
MSN
Masters of Science in Nursing.
MSW
Masters degree in Social Work.
M.S.S.W.
Master's of Science in Social Work.
NAADAC
National Association of Addiction Professionals
NADT
National Association For Drama Therapy
N.A.S.W
National Association of Social Workers.
NBCC
National Board of Certified Counselors
OTR
Occupational Therapist Registered.
PA
Public Aid.
PAS
Pre-Admission Screening for nursing home and/or residential treatment. Needed for individuals on Medicaid (State of Illinois)
PD
Police Department.
PDR
Physicians' Desk Reference (book describing medication).
PhD
Doctor of Philosophy (can be in any field, i.e. psychology, social work, chemistry...)
PsyD
Doctorate of Psychology.
RA
Ritual Abuse
RD
Registered Dietitian
R.D.T.
Registered Drama Therapist (by the National Association For Drama Therapy).
RN
Registered Nurse.
Rx
Prescription/Prescribed
QMHP
Qualified Mental Health Professional (Master Degreed Level Professional).
QMRP
Qualified Mental Retardation Professional (Master Degreed Professional).
SASS
Screening, Assessment & Support Services. (Needed for individuals on Medicaid in the state of Illinois prior to being admitted to a psychiatric unit or facility.
SSA
Social Security Administration
SSDI
Social Security Disability Income
SSI
Social Security Income
Tx
Treatment Prescribed Treatment