Showing posts with label suicide attempts. Show all posts
Showing posts with label suicide attempts. Show all posts

Monday, April 28, 2003

Case of Unnamed Cop in Tel Aviv



Case of Unnamed Cop in Tel Aviv
 
Police Officer - Tel Aviv, Israel
Served in the IDF - Israel Defense Forces
 
 
A man was sentenced to four years in prison for raping his younger brother.  The boy was between the ages of 6 to 10 years-old at the time of the sexual assaults.  The abuse of the younger brother back in 1984.  The perpetrator became a police officer in 1989, which was during the time he was still abusing his brother.  

Defense attorney Ofer Bartal argued that, apart from the crimes in question, the defendant had exhibited normative behavior, is a father of four, served in the Israel Defense Forces and was a serving policeman for 13 years.
 
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Table of Contents
2003
  1. Four years jail for former cop who raped his younger brother (04/28/2003)
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  The Tel Aviv District Court yesterday sentenced a man to four years in jail for raping and sodomizing his younger brother. The defendant, who is 11 years older than his brother, committed the acts over a four-year period, when the younger sibling was aged between 6 and 10. 

The defendant began committing the crimes in 1984, sometimes as often as four times a week. According to the prosecution, the defendant forcibly raped his younger brother, despite the latter's protestations. Some of the acts with which he was charged are now covered by the statute of limitations. 

The defendant was convicted as part of a plea-bargain deal with the prosecution, and the punishment imposed was the maximum that the court could hand out within the framework of the deal. The defendant was also ordered to pay compensation of NIS 20,000, and was handed an 18-month suspended sentence. 

While arguing over the sentencing, prosecuting attorney Iris Ramati claimed that the victim not only agreed to the plea bargain, but encouraged it, in order to avoid having to testify against his brother in court. 

The defendant joined the police, as a patrolman, in 1988, only to retire from the force 13 years later after he was involved in a traffic accident. His crimes only came to light after he had retired from the force. 

In handing out the punishment, the presiding judges stated that the victim, who is now 25, has tried to commit suicide in the past and, as a result of the pain and humiliation he feels, is a regular drug user. The court also wrote that the victim finds it very difficult to enter into long-term relationships, and that he has spoken of his inability to trust others. 

Commenting on the circumstances surrounding the crimes, the court wrote that the defendant turned his younger brother into "a sex slave" from the age of six, causing him severe emotional damage, some of which is irreversible. 

Defense attorney Ofer Bartal argued that, apart from the crimes in question, the defendant had exhibited normative behavior, is a father of four, served in the Israel Defense Forces and was a serving policeman for 13 years. 

The judges ruled however that, despite the leniency of the plea bargain, it should be adopted in this case.
 
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Monday, July 05, 1999

Case of Sexual Harassment of Teenage Girl (1915)

Case of Sexual Harassment of Teenage Girl (1915)
New York, NY



After being sexually harassed Lydia Silverman attempted suicide.  The offenders in this case were not named.
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Table of Contents:
  1. Teased over kiss, girl tries suicide (07/05/1916)

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Teased over kiss, girl tries suicide 
New York Times - July 5, 1916


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Sunday, January 01, 1989

Some Common Characteristics of Survivors of Incest

Some Common Characteristics of Survivors of Incest
VOICES in Action, Inc. - January 1, 1989

Each survivor of incest has his or her own story, distinct and yet similar in one way or another to other survivors' stories.  Some of us remember a lot abut the abuse; others remember little of it.  Some of us were victims of "velvet glove" seduction; others were victims of intense violence.

How we react to the abuse may be a distinct and similar as our stories.  To survive the betrayal of trust and the violations of our bodies, we developed survival skills which may have been effective at the time.  Victims of child abuse tend to carry at least some of these learned skills into adulthood; as we recover, we struggle to let go of these old behaviors and patterns.  A large measure of our recovery is our ability to find and adopt new, healthier ways to cope as we seek to reclaim our lives.


Some survivors are:

  • numb to their feelings
  • accident prone
  • withdrawn or isolated from others
  • shy
  • gregarious ad very social, but only in superficial ways
  • angry or enraged
  • fearful
  • fearful of strangers
  • bothered by obsessive thoughts
  • promiscuous
  • celibate
  • substance abusers
  • compulsive over-eaters, or demonstrate another eating disorder
  • afraid of anger or violent people


Some survivors have:

  • strongly negative feelings about their bodies
  • mutilated or hurt their own bodies
  • strained relations with their family of origin
  • difficulty relating appropriately to men or women
  • anxiety attacks or panic attacks
  • phobias
  • gaps in their memories, or have conflicting memories
  • various physical problems
  • difficulty with sex
  • difficulties having an orgasm
  • sleep disturbances and/or nightmares
  • suicidal thoughts
  • a tendency to lie when there is no reason to lie


Some survivors feel:

  • different, isolated, or like a "freak"
  • drawn to help others, sometimes at their own risk or loss
  • unworthy
  • crazy terribly guilty. . . and don't know why