Tendler Family Tree
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The following is for informational purposes only. The Awareness Center is providing the following to help the average reader better understand the political arena and harassment that the alleged survivors, witnesses and victim advocates have been subject to.
The majority of individuals around the world are unfamiliar with Tendler family and or the political influences that have surrounding their lives.
As in most cases, it is a very difficult to deal with situations of sexual violence when a loved one is the alleged offender. Think about it—what would you do if you suspected that someone you are related to or are friends with is sexually inappropriate? Would you talk to him/her about it? Would you tell another family member or friend? Would you share it with your rabbi? Would your rabbi know what to do? Would you seek professional help or advice? Should you keep quiet to protect your family member or sound the whistle to protect another? How would your community react if they knew someone in your family allegedly sexually victimized another? Would your community's expected reaction influence any decision you'd make? These are just few of the numerous dilemmas and questions regularly posted to The Awareness Center.
Dealing with alleged and convicted sex offenders and their family members presents complex ethical issues. What can be harder than being the mother or the father of a sex offender?
Denial is clearly the first line of defense, because who in their right mind wants to believe that their offspring, someone they love and care for, could hurt a child? How can a parent even think of supposedly relinquishing their instinct to protect their child by reporting him or her to the authorities? It is a terrible dilemma. Could you as a parent turn your child over to the police? Could you force an adult child of yours into sex offender treatment? And what would friends and other family members think if they learned that you were the parent of a sexual predator? A similar between a rock and a hard place is the reality for people who are married to sex offenders.
What about the stigma and shame if anyone learned your secret, learned that you married, live with and or bed such a person? And what about the children of a sex offender—how would you feel if you were one? How would you face your friends, schoolmates, or co-workers once your parent's criminal behavior was made public? Would you still be allowed in your friends' homes? Would you still have friends? Would you and your siblings face shunning and stigma come marriage age?
These heartbreaking and complicated issues are real, and need to be addressed. We need to address them as a community. Every alleged and convicted sex offender has parents, family, friends and colleagues—people who are close to him/her and are faced with this reality, often unprepared, and in many ways, also victimized, hurt, confused, disillusioned, and ashamed.
Do you know of a family member or friend of an alleged or convicted sex offender? It is critical that you don't turn your backs on them. They need your support. Put yourself in their place. If you were one, what would you need?
The spouse of an alleged and/or convicted sex offender may need financial support while the offender is in prison and or treatment. If there are children in the home, the non-abusive spouse may have to keep them away from the offender to keep them safe. Can you imagine the feelings of anger, shame, guilt, and fear that the non-offending parent will need to deal with?
Every member of a family of alleged and/or convicted sex offenders will need the community's emotional, financial, and spiritual support. And what a difference such support can make in the healing process of non-offending family members; versus them being shunned for their "association" with a sexual predator and/or for helping to stop the abuse.
There is no doubt that we all have a moral obligation to help stop sexual violence so that offenders cease to victimize and the victims receive the healing they deserve. Whether we know the offender or not, hiding, denying and covering up his or her actions make us accomplices to the crime. At the same time, the pain of having a family member or friend who is an alleged or convicted sex offender has to be one of the hardest pains to bear. It is also our moral obligation, as a community, to offer a holding environment (not shunning and shame) for all families torn by abuse—those of the victims, and that of the offender.
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Table of Contents:
- Immediate Relatives of the Tendler Brothers (Rabbi Mordechai Tendler and Rabbi Aron Tendler)
- Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (Mordecai and Aron Tendler's Maternal Grandfather)
- Faye Gittel Feinstein-Schisgal (Great-Aunt)
- married to Rabbi Moshe Schisgal
- Rabbi David Feinstein - Rosh Yeshivah of Mesivta Tiferes Yerushalayim (Great-Uncle)
- Rabbi Reuven Feinstein (Great-Uncle).
- Shifra Feinstein-Tendler (Mordecai and Aron Tendler's Mother)
- married to Rabbi Moshe Dovid Tendler, Ph.D. - Monsey, NY (Mordecai and Aron Tendler's Father)
- Case of Rabbi Aron Tendler - North Hollywood, CA (Brother of Mordecai Tendler)
- Avivia Tendler ("Russie") - Rappaport - Israel (Sister of Aron Boruch and Mordecai Tendler)
- Rabbi Hillel Tendler, Attorney - Baltimore, MD (Brother of Aron and Mordecai Tendler)
- Case of Rabbi Mordecai Tendler - New Hempstead, NY (Brother of Aron Tendler)
- Rabbi Yacov Tendler, MD - Monsey, NY (Brother of Aron and Mordecai Tendler)
- Extended Family Tree
- Rabbi Sholom Tendler (Moshe Dovid Tendler's Brother)
- Rabbi Yosef Tendler (Moshe Dovid Tendler's Brother)
- Rabbi Aaron (Aharon) Yosef Tendler (Son of Rabbi Yosef Tendler)
- Rabbi Akiva Tendler - Monsey, NY (Son of Rabbi Yosef Tendler)
- Rabbi Shmuel Tendler
- Ner Israel Rabbinical College - Baltimore, MD
- Tendler/Weinberg Family Connections
Also see:
- The Awareness Center's Brochure
- Case of Rabbi Moshe Eisemann
- Eiseman Family Tree
- Case of Rabbi Eliezer Eisgrau
- Eiseman Family Tree
- Case of Rabbi Aron Boruch Tendler
- Tendler Family Tree
- Case of Rabbi Mordecai Tendler
- Tendler Family Tree
- Case of Rabbi Matis Weinberg
- Weinberg Family Tree
- Eisemann / Eisgrau Family Tree
- Neuberger Family Tree
- Weinberg Family Tree / Ruderman Family Tree
- When A Family Member Molests: Reality, Conflict, and The Need For Support
- Missionaries, Cults and the Jewish Community
- Cults, Mind Control, Sex Crimes and the Jewish Community
- Rabbi, Cantors and Other Trusted Officals
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Tendler Family Members
Rabbi Moshe Feinstein (Mordecai Tendler's Maternal Grandfather)
Rav Moshe Feinstein
(1895-1986)
http://www.ou.org/about/judaism/rabbis/feinstein.htm
In the towering apartment complexes on the Lower East Side of Manhattan in the second half of the twentieth century, lived hundreds, perhaps thousands, of Jews. Among them was a distinguished and elderly gentleman, diminutive in physical stature, but a giant in intellect. Rabbi Moshe Feinstein ZT"L became the leading halachic authority of his generation, and his p'sakim (halachic rulings) were accepted worldwide.
Rav Moshe was born in Uzdan, near Minsk, Belorussia, where his father was rabbi. He became rabbi of Luban, also near Minsk, as a single bochur. Later he married Shima Kustanovich in 1920, and he entrusted all material decisions to his lifelong partner. They had three children in Russia: Faye Gittel (who would marry a distinguished rav, Rav Moshe Schisgal Z"L in America), Shifra (who later would marry Rabbi Dr. Moshe David Tendler, Mora D'Asra of Community Synagogue in Monsey, as well as Magid Shiur and professor of biology at YU), David (who would succeed his father as Rosh Yeshivah of Mesivta Tiferes Yerushalayim), and one in America, Reuven (currently Rosh Yeshivah of the Staten Island branch of MTJ).
Rav Moshe remained in Luban until 1937, by which time the exit gates from Russia were locked shut. By a combination of hard work by the rav for several earlier years to obtain papers, plus some American political influence instigated by family already in this country, papers finally arrived, and he emigrated with his family to the United States.
Here he became Rosh HaYeshivah of Mesivta Tiferes Yerushalayim, that became world-famous because of his presence. Rav Moshe's halachic decisions have been published in a collection called Igros Moshe (The Letters of Moshe). An idea of his attitude regarding the rendering of halachic decisions can be gleaned from his introduction to the Igros: He writes that he feels suspended and torn between two verses cited by Rav Huna bar Abba in the name of Rav Huna – " `She destroyed multitudes' – This refers to a talmid chochom who did not reach the level to render decisions, who nevertheless renders halachic decisions. `And vast was the number of those she killed' – This refers to a talmid chochom who has reached the level of rendering halachic decisions, but does not issue them. And all the more so for one such as myself who does not know sufficient Torah and wisdom, perhaps I should have refrained from rendering decisions and certainly from publishing them..."
But Rav Moshe writes that he came to the conclusion that if the talmid chochom invests all his effort and deliberates with all his mental energy, combined with fear of Heaven, he is not required by HaShem necessarily to arrive at the absolute truth, although he is helped by Heaven to accomplish that.
The following is a minute sample of the responsa that he wrote:
- regarding the partial covering of the head when walking in the street or reciting a blessing
- regarding the matter of the paralysis of the left hand in connection with Tefillin
- regarding whether a kohen who desecrates the Sabbath publicly can bless the congregation with the other priests
- regarding the mechitzah, the physical separation between men and women in a synagogue, and its required height
- regarding a synagogue in which American and Israeli flags have been set up – does this constitute a problem?
- regarding establishing a partnership with a Jew who desecrates the Sabbath
- Rav Moshe says that he is only providing his opinion with respect to the halachic questions raised, that he indicates all his sources, and that he welcomes and encourages all readers to check his sources and question his conclusions.
- The selflessness and modesty of this Torah scholar only magnify his greatness. And the fear of Heaven that underlay all his thoughts shows how great a "gadol," a Torah giant, he was.
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Rav Moshe Feinstein
Breslev.com
(1895 - 1986) Rabbi Moshe Feinstein lived in the Lower East Side of Manhattan in the second half of the twentieth century. He became the leading halachic authority of his generation, and hisp’sakim (halachic rulings) were accepted worldwide.
Rav Moshe was born in Uzdan, near Minsk, Belorussia, where his father was rabbi. He became rabbi of Luban, also near Minsk, as a single bochur. Later he married Shima Kustanovich in 1920, and he entrusted all material decisions to his lifelong partner. They had three children in Russia: Faye Gittel (who would marry a distinguished rav, Rav Moshe Schisgal Z”L in America), Shifra (who later would marry Rabbi Dr. Moshe David Tendler, Mora D’Asra of Community Synagogue in Monsey, as well as Maggid Shiur and professor of biology at YU), David (who would succeed his father as Rosh Yeshivah of Mesivta Tiferet Yerushalayim), and one in America, Reuven (currently Rosh Yeshivah of the Staten Island branch of MTJ).
Rav Moshe remained in Luban until 1937 and after overcoming technical difficulties was able to immigrate with his family to the United States.
In America Rav Moshe became Rosh HaYeshivah of Mesivta Tiferet Yerushalayim, which became world renowned in his time. His halachic decisions have been published in a collection calledIgrot Moshe (The Letters of Moshe). He placed great emphasis on exact knowledge of halacha in this work, to avoid gross mistakes and inability to render decisions Rav Moshe says that he is only providing his opinion with respect to the halachic questions raised, that he indicates all his sources, and that he welcomes and encourages all readers to check his sources and question his conclusions.
The selflessness and modesty of this Torah scholar only magnify his greatness. And the fear of Heaven that underlay all his thoughts shows how great a “gadol,” a Torah giant, he was.
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Rabbi Moshe (Moses) Dovid Tendler, Ph.D.
(Mordecai, Aron Boruch, Akiva, Aviva, Hillel and Yacov Tendler's Father)
(AKA: Moses Tendler)
Rabbi - Community Synagogue of Monsey, NY
Rosh Yeshiva, Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary
Chairman, Department of Biology, and Professor of Jewish Medical Ethics, Yeshiva University
Biography:
http://www.yutorah.org/bio.cfm?teacherID=80197
Rav Tendler is the Rabbi Isaac and Bella Tendler Professor of Jewish Medical Ethics, and is a Professor of Biology, as well as being a Rosh Yeshiva in Yeshivat Rav Yitzchak Elchanan (MYP/RIETS).
Rabbi Tendler is the leading expert on medical ethics as it pertains to Jewish law. He is the author of Practical Medical Halakhah, a textbook of Jewish responsa to medical issues, and "Pardes Rimonim", a book about the halachot of Taharat Mishpacha.
Rabbi Tendler is the is currently Rabbi of a the Community Synagogue in Monsey, NY, and is the chairman of the Bioethical Commission, RCA, and of the Medical Ethics Task Force, UJA-Federation of Greater New York
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Rabbi Moses Tendler
http://pewforum.org/events/0503/tendlerbio.htm
Dr. Moses D. Tendler, noted authority on medical ethics and the relationship of medicine and science to Jewish law, serves in a dual capacity as professor of biology at Yeshiva College and as a rosh yeshiva (professor of Talmud) at the University-affiliated Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary (RIETS).
A leading expert on Jewish medical ethics, Dr. Tendler holds the Rabbi Isaac and Bella Tendler Chair in Jewish Medical Ethics at Yeshiva University. The Chair – named to honor the memory of his parents – was established in 1986 by the late Joseph Applebaum, and his wife, Leila. Dr. Tendler was named was the chair's inaugural occupant in 1987, the first of its kind to be established at any university in the U.S.
Dr. Tendler received his B.A. degree from NYU in 1947, and a Master's degree there in 1950. He was ordained at RIETS in 1949, and following that, earned a Ph.D. in biology from Columbia in 1957.
Since 1969, he has served on the Medical Ethics Task Force of the Federation of Jewish Philanthropies, for which he edited Medical Ethics, a compendium of principles on morality, ethics and Halakhah (Jewish law). For nine years he served as its chairman. He is also chairman of the Bioethical Commission of the Rabbinical Council of America. He is a member of the Board of Directors of Good Samaritan Hospital, Suffern, NY and member of their Ethics Committee. Dr. Tendler was a founding member of the National Association of Bioethical Research in Reproduction, initially founded by the American College of Obstetrics/Gynecology, and a leading ethics think tank in the field of reproduction technology.
He was president and then chairman, from 1970 to 1974, of the Board of the Association of Orthodox Jewish Scientists. Dr. Tendler has contributed many articles on science and religion to leading publications, and is frequently contacted by the media and public officials for information and advice on pertinent ethical issues.
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Rabbi Dr. Moshe Tendler
http://www.ou.org/oupr/1999/rabbis6.htm
A noted authority on medical ethics and the relationship of medicine and science to Jewish law, Rabbi Dr. Moshe Tendler is a Rosh Yeshiva at Rabbi Isaac Elchanan Theological Seminary and a professor of biology at Yeshiva College.
Widely quoted in the press on medical ethics, Rabbi Tendler is a leading expert on issues ranging from infertility to euthanasia.
Since 1965, Rabbi Tendler has served as of the spiritual leader of Community Synagogue of Monsey. A vibrant, growing congregation, the shul is known for its rich and diverse array of stimulating shiurim in Gemara, Halacha, Torah and Nach.
Rabbi Tendler, who has smicha from RIETS and earned a Ph.D. in biology from Columbia University, serves on the Medical Ethics Task Force of the Federation of Jewish Philanthropies and is chairman of the
Bioethical Commission of the Rabbinical Council of America. Rabbi Tendler resides in Monsey with his wife, the former Sifra Feinstein, who is the daughter of renowned Halachist Rabbi Moshe Feinstein, zt"l.
They have eight children.
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Shifra Tendler (AKA: Shifra Feinstein)
(Mother of rabbis Mordecai, Aron Boruch, Akiva, Aviva, Hillel and Yaakov Tendler)
Shifra Tendler, wife and daughter of renowned rabbis, dies in Monsey
Journal News - October 11, 2007
http://www.thejournalnews.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20071011/NEWS03/710110447
Shifra Tendler, the wife of Monsey Rabbi Moshe Dovid Tendler, has died.
Her funeral was at 3 p.m. today at Community Synagogue in Monsey, a synagogue led by her husband for decades.
She is a daughter of the late Moshe Feinstein, a renowned Orthodox Jewish U.S. rabbi whose religious rulings were accepted worldwide among Orthodox Jewry.
Rabbi Tendler is the leading Orthodox Jewish rabbi in the U.S. He is a professor of biology at Yeshiva University and an expert on medical ethics pertaining to Jewish law.
The Tendlers have five sons, three daughters and numerous grandchildren.
Shifra Tendler, 79, held the title of honor of "rebbetzin," wife of the rabbi. She was very active within the religious community.
"Her death is a major loss to the community," said Elaine Silverberg, a family friend and congregant.
Another congregant, Shimon Sontag of Monsey, said Shifra Tendler was well-respected and beloved for her work with people.
She was active with the synagogue's sisterhood and with her husband's work at the shul.
"She was a good-hearted and learned person," Sontag said. "She was respected by everyone. She was always there for people when they needed her."
Because of her family lineage, several thousand people attended her funeral and subsequent burial in Brick Church Cemetery.
The Ramapo police and Sheriff's Department controlled the traffic in the community.
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We regret to inform you of the petirah of Rebbitzen Shifra Tendler a`h
Frum Source Blog - October 11, 2007
http://www.frumsource.com/news_detail.asp?news_id=826
MONSEY -We regret to inform you of the petirah of Rebbitzen Shifra Tendler a"h, the wife of Rav Moshe Dovid Tendler Shlita.
The Levaya is scheduled for 3 p.m. today at Community Synagogue in Monsey.
She is a daughter of Hagoen Hagodol Harav Moshe Feinstein Zatzal, a renown Orthodox Jewish U.S. rabbi whose religious rulings were accepted worldwide among Orthodox Jewry.
Rabbi Tendler is a professor of biology at Yeshiva University and an expert on medical ethics pertaining to Jewish law.
The Tendlers have five sons, three daughters and numerous grandchildren.
Shifra Tendler A"H, 79, held the title of honor of "rebbetzin," wife of the rabbi. She was very active within the religious community.
Shimon Sontag of Monsey, said Rebbitzen Shifra Tendler was well-respected and beloved for her work with people.
She was active with the synagogue's sisterhood and with her husband's work at the shul.
"She was a good-hearted and learned person," Sontag said. "She was respected by everyone. She was always there for people when they needed her."
Because of her family lineage, several thousand people are likely to attend her funeral and subsequent burial in Brick Church Cemetery.
The Ramapo police and Sheriff's Department will do traffic control in the community.
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Rabbi Aron Boruch Tendler (AKA: Ahron Tendler, Aron Tendler, Aaron Tendler)
(Brother of rabbi Mordecai Tendler)
North Hollywood, FL; Baltimore, MD
Accused of sexually abusing teenage girls. He resigned as principal of Yeshiva University High School for girls in Los Angeles, CA; and also as Rabbi of Shaarey Zedek Congregation in North Hollywood, CA; after allegations of professional sexual misconduct were brought up against him.
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Aviva Rappaport (AKA: Aviva Tendler, Russie Rappaport)
(Sister of Aron Boruch and Mordecai Tendler)
Jerusalem, Israel
Certified labor coach and lactation consultant
Author - Practical advice and classic stories on life's goals and aspirations
Author - A Jewish Woman's Guide to Childbirth
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Rabbi Hillel Tendler - Attorney (Brother of Aron Boruch and Mordecai Tendler)
Chairman of the Board - Torah Institute, Baltimore, MD
Board of Directors - Sinai Hospitial, Baltimore, MD
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Rabbi Mordecai Tendler
(Brother of rabbi Aron Boruch Tendler)
Accused of clergy sexual abuse. This case started during the question-and-answer session of a Makor forum on rabbinic abuse, (back in December, 2003) several female health-care professionals in the audience spoke with passion and frustration about a well-known rabbi in their local community whose affairs with women in his office, they said, have gone on for years.
Rabbi Tendler was the founder and religious leader of Kehillat New Hempstead, a Modern Orthodox congregation near Monsey.
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Rabbi Yacov Tendler, MD (AKA: Yaakov Tendler)
(brother of Aron Boruch and Mordecai Tendler)
Rabbi Dr. Yacov Tendler, Rosh Kollel
Community Synagogue of Monsey (CSM) Kollel - Learning Institute
Yacov Tendler, MD
Specialties: Internal Medicine
3 College Road,
Monsey, New York
Phone: (845) 357 4958
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Extended Family Tree
Faye Gittel Feinstein-Schisgal (Mordecai and Aron Tendler's Great-Aunt)
Faye Gittel and Moshe Schisgal's had twin daughters. Back in the 1960's the girls posed naked for Penthouse Magazine. This was unheard of for girls from an observant background, let alone from a famous rabbinic family. Family members negotiated so that the photographs were never printed. It's important to remember that the majority of individuals who get involved with the porn industry are survivors of child abuse (primarily sexual abuse) and neglect.
Rabbi Moshe Schisgal (Married to Mordecai and Aron Tendler's Great-Aunt)
Jewish Weekly - September 24, 2004
The rabbi died at a tragically young age and arsonists burned the synagogue down.
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Rabbi David Feinstein (Maternal Great-Uncle)
Succeed his father (Rav Moshe Feinstein) as Rosh Yeshivah of Mesivta Tiferes Yerushalayim
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Rabbi Reuven Feinstein
(AKA: Reuvain Feinstein)
Maternal Great-Uncle of Aron Boruch Tendler and Mordecai Tendler
Rosh Yeshiva, Mesivta Tiferes Jerusalem, Staten Island, NY
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Rabbi Yosef Tendler
Paternal Uncle / Brother of Rabbi Moshe Dovid Tendler
Dean - Ner Israel Mechina High School for Boys, Baltimore, MD
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Rabbi Aaron Tendler (Son of Rabbi Yosef Tendler)
(AKA: Aron Tendler, Aharon Tendler)
(First Cousin of Mordecai Tendler and Aron Boruch Tendler)
Ner Israel Mechina High School for Boys - Baltimore, MD
Faculty, Ner Israel Rabbinical College, Baltimore, MD
Ma'alot Seminary - Baltimore, MD
Torah.org, Staff - Baltimore, MD
MyChasuna.com, Rabbinical Advisory Board - Baltimore, MD
Etz Chaim Center of Valley Village, Rabbi - Owings Mills, MD.
Blue Ribbon Kosher, Rabbinical Advisory Board- Minneapolis, MN
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Rabbi Akiva Tendler (Son of Rabbi Yosef Tendler)
(First Cousin of Mordecai Tendler and Aron Boruch Tendler)
Director of Education Director - Ohr Somayach, Monsey, NY
Rabbi Tendler studied in Beis Moshe of Scranton, PA as well as in the Mirrer Yeshiva in Jerusalem. Before joining Ohr Somayach, he worked as a student counselor and guide at Aish HaTorah and Ner Yaakov in Jerusalem. He holds a Doctorate of Jewish Law from Ner Israel Rabbinical College. Rabbi Tendler is the author of a number of highly acclaimed Rabbinical Responsa on contemporary halachic issues. He serves as the senior student counselor and liason and co-ordinates with each student his individual, short and long term learning goals. Besides his prodigious talents, Rabbi Tendler is also an internationaly recognized composer and musician. His latest CD, Simchas Libi, was released in Summer 2004.
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Rabbi Shalom Tendler
(AKA: Sholom Tendler)
Rosh Yeshiva - YULA (Yeshiva University High Schools of Los Angeles
Vice President - Rabbinical Council of California
Halachic Advisory Board - Jewish Family Services.
Rabbi Sholom Tendler , affectionately known as Rav Sholom, is a renowned educator and is widely recognized for his erudite and articulate presentations of the most complex areas of Jewish thought. He is Rabbi of Young Israel of North Beverly Hills, the West Coast Region's newest OU member synagogue. He has been the Rosh HaYeshiva of YOLA and YULA Boys' School for the past 24 years and is currently Vice President of the Rabbinical Council of California and founder of the Halachic Advisory Board of Jewish Family Services.
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Rabbi Shmuel M. Tendler
(cousin of both Rabbi Mordecai Tendler and Rabbi Aron Tendler)
Lakewood, NJ
Congregation Sons of Israel
Madison Avenue and Sixth Street
PO Box 16
Lakewood, NJ 08701
(732)- 364- 2230
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Tendler/Weinberg Family Connections
(Cases of Rabbi Matis Weinberg and Rabbi Simcha Weinberg)
Battle for the Truth - Rabbi Mattis Weinberg fights Yeshiva University over charges of "inappropriate influence."
By Julie Gruenbaum Fax
The Jewish Journal - March 28, 2003
A prominent rabbi in Jerusalem's Old City, who was rumored to have sexually abused students at a California yeshiva 20 years ago, is fighting new innuendoes that he wields inappropriate influence over students at a Jerusalem yeshiva with which he is loosely affiliated.
Rabbi Mattis Weinberg, who founded Yeshivat Kerem in Santa Clara in the mid-1970s, counts as some of his strongest supporters - and detractors - former Kerem students and faculty members who now live in Los Angeles.
The Kerem scandal reemerged from a two-decade dormancy last month when Yeshiva University (YU) in New York severed ties with Yeshiva Derech Etz Chaim (DEC) in Jerusalem, a post-high school yeshiva for about 35 American boys founded five years ago by Weinberg's students and where Weinberg taught a class once a week. YU alleged that Weinberg has significant influence among faculty and students and that both past and present inappropriate behavior warrant caution.
Rabbi Yosef Blau, spiritual adviser to students at YU, said that one current DEC student has come forward with allegations of sexual abuse.
He said another five victims from Kerem are willing to go on record. Weinberg and his supporters have embarked on an aggressive campaign to clear his name, calling all the allegations - past and present - ludicrous.
The decades-old scandal has resurfaced in a climate of hypersensitivity to sexual misconduct in an Orthodox community where incidents of abuse and cover-up have been exposed in the last few years. Some question whether Weinberg's case indicates that institutions wary of being accused of complacency have confused caution with overzealousness, while others laud the newfound imperative to clear up past wrongs and prevent future ones.
Weinberg is incensed by the accusations.
"Because of their desire to appear holier-than-thou, they decided to embark on some type of witch hunt or McCarthyism," Weinberg said in a phone interview from Jerusalem. Weinberg and his supporters believe YU's reaction can be traced to the fallout from the scandal involving Rabbi Baruch Lanner, who is free pending an appeal after being sentenced last June to seven years in prison for sexually abusing two girls when he was principal of a New Jersey yeshiva in the 1990s. The Orthodox Union, which employed Lanner as a regional director of the National Council for Synagogue Youth, admitted in an internal report to playing a part in covering up Lanner's offenses in the youth group for 20 years - a notion that Weinberg's supporters say has sent the Modern Orthodox Yeshiva University over the edge in caution.
"We checked the history to our satisfaction and we were concerned that there might be a problem and we are not ready to have a relationship with a school and put our name on an institution where there might be something not healthy for student," Blau said.
Blau said that reports from current students raised some flags of concern, especially when taken in context of the Kerem scandal of 20 years ago.
He is confident that more victims - those who have already spoken with professionals and those who have yet to do so - will come forward soon. But so far, specifics are lacking.
The Commentator, YU's student paper, reported on one case where Weinberg took a student (not from DEC) to Safed for a weekend, and other cases of Weinberg using inappropriate sexual references in Torah lectures.
Weinberg called the accusations ludicrous. He says the student who went to Safed was a 20-year-old man who joined Weinberg - who has 10 children and many grandchildren - on a family trip, splitting the cost of the rental car. As to sexual content in his lectures, Weinberg said that both Bible and Talmud are full of such references, and he includes them where appropriate and necessary when he delivers his many lectures at yeshivot throughout Israel.
The vagueness of the accusations have angered and frustrated the administration at DEC, especially since they say DEC's ties to Weinberg are tenuous, and he holds no special influence over students.
"There is outrage amongst the present student population as well as their parents, alumni and alumni parents about the way YU has conducted itself toward DEC," said Rabbi Aharon Katz, dean of DEC. "YU has stated to us in conversations [as well as to others] that they have no allegations from students who have attended DEC."
DEC learned of the allegations only after the letter went out to parents. As soon as the yeshiva heard the accusations it suspended the weekly lecture Weinberg was delivering, pending an investigation, said Rabbi Sholom Strajcher, Katz's father-in-law and DEC president.
"What we want is to put it out on the table," said Strajcher, educational director of Yeshiva University of Los Angeles Boys High School (YULA). "Let's create a mechanism of impartial professionals to look at it so that we can feel that there has been a fair process," he said.
YU has alleged that Weinberg holds cult-like sway over his students.
Weinberg's supporters, several of whom contacted The Journal, say that kind of accusation stems from jealousy.
"What bothers people most about Rabbi Weinberg is that their Torah is garden variety as compared to his.... He is a brilliant thinker. He will not accept the usual approaches to Torah," said Rabbi Ari Hier, director of the Jewish Studies Institute at the Simon Wiesenthal Center, who attended Kerem for seven years.
"As soon as you are outside of the box, immediately the Orthodox mediocrity has a problem with you," said Hier, son of Wiesenthal dean Rabbi Marvin Hier.
Kerem, which existed for seven years, employed some well-known rabbis in Los Angeles, including Rabbi Shalom Tendler, now rosh yeshiva at YULA; Rabbi Aron Tendler of Shaarei Tzedek Congregation; Rabbi Daniel Lapin, formerly of the Pacific Jewish Center in Venice; and Rabbi Eliezer Eidlitz, now director of development at Emek Hebrew Academy.
It is Eidlitz whom the Commentator quoted as supplying YU with the ammunition to attack Weinberg and DEC. Eidlitz refused to comment for The Jewish Journal.
In 1983, a year after Weinberg moved to Israel and soon before the school closed its doors, major backers of Kerem and faculty were vying for control of the institution, Weinberg said. Amid that atmosphere, rumors emerged that Weinberg had sexually abused some of the students. No charges were ever brought.
Rabbi Ari Guidry, a student at Kerem for seven years, who has taught at several day schools in Los Angeles and now produces Torah CDs, said he was the source of some of those rumors. But he says now he misrepresented appropriate hugs from Weinberg to impress wealthy and powerful backers who did not like Weinberg.
"There was never anything remotely sexually suggestive," Guidry said of his relationship with Weinberg.
But Blau of YU said there are more witnesses who are not speaking publicly about what happened at Kerem.
Also in question is how the original allegations were handled. Blau said that there is a letter signed by Weinberg and Rabbi Elya Svei, a leading rabbinic figure from Philadelphia, stating that Weinberg would not be involved in education.
"That is absolutely categorically insane," Weinberg said. "I would love for somebody to produce this document."
One local rabbi familiar with the situation said that the matter at Kerem was dealt with at a rabbinic assembly involving some of the most elite rabbis in the United States at the time, including the late Rabbi Yaakov Weinberg, Weinberg's father and rosh yeshiva of Ner Israel in Baltimore. Because of Weinberg's lineage - he is the grandson of the highly respected late Rabbi Yaakov Ruderman - Weinberg was quietly confined to a life without direct influence over students so that scandal would not touch this respected Torah family, this rabbi alleged.
"That never happened. It is absolutely, categorically, simply totally untrue," Weinberg said of such an assembly.
Weinberg said that all he is guilty of is possessing the overconfidence of a 29-year-old in charge of a school and loving his students. Kerem took in many students from broken homes, he said.
"I believe that when kids are shown, for the first time in their lives, support and concern and actual love, it makes all the difference to them," he said. "When subsequently these accusations were made and the kids were told that nobody loved you and cared about you and any sign of comfort was because it was giving somebody a sexual charge - that such a devastating thing to them," Weinberg said.
Weinberg said his supporters are in negotiations with YU, but if the situation is not resolved he will take legal action.
"If I had spent the years I spent being productive getting involved in such nonsense, I would not have given thousands of classes or published books. I would have become a bitter, small-minded person who worries about what other people think and about their lashon hara [gossip]," Weinberg said. "But I have been put into a position that if they continue this, it has to be stopped."
Blau said that YU stands by its actions, and that more information will soon emerge. Meanwhile, Blau said, the students must be protected.
"There is some level of suspicion and some level of risk, and that is enough to react," he said.
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