by Vicki Polin
Examiner - May 6, 2012
http://www.examiner.com/article/mandated-reporting-nj-dr-pelcovitz-what-are-you-thinking
http://www.examiner.com/article/mandated-reporting-nj-dr-pelcovitz-what-are-you-thinking
The saga continues with the dynamic duo of David Mandel (director of Ohel Family Services) and David Pelcovitz (licensed psychologist and Yeshiva University professor). Both
have been speaking at workshops in haredi communities around the United
States and NOT providing parents with the most important information
needed to protect their children from being abused. Once again these
two self proclaimed experts omitted providing parents in Lakewood, NJ
the necessary information regarding mandated reporting.
The ongoing issues of Pelcovitz and Mandel not talking about mandated
reporting during workshops is partially due to the fact they
continuously cave into political pressures from various rabbonim -- who
mandate that individuals get permission from rabbis prior to reporting
suspicions of child abuse and or neglect to law enforcement officials or
making hotline reports without the permission of local rabbis first.
Several experts in the field of mind control have described the ciphering information to its membership by any community leader, such as the rabbonim of Lakewood, as being a form of cult like behavior.
On May 3rd, Dr. Pelcovitz and David Mandel spoke at a symposium held at Ateres Riva that was sponsored by the Lakewood Community Services Corporation, and organized by Rabbi Moshe Velvel Weisberg who is a member of the Vaad of Lakewood (Jewish religious court). What is interesting is that in the state of New Jersey, EVERYONE is a mandated reporter, including individuals giving workshops on child abuse and neglect. In New Jersey, mandated reporting does NOT mean going to your local orthodox rabbi first to get permission. The truth is that pressures from the rabbonim in Lakewood could also be construed as a form of witness tampering, and should be reported to local, state and federal law enforcement officials.
In the Asbury Press article published back in 2009, “Culture clash: Secular law and the Torah: Orthodox community deals with sexual abuse”, Rabbi Weisberg stated: “The
town's rabbinical leaders strongly deny their residents are discouraged
from reporting suspicions to law enforcement as a way to avoid outside
stigma. If anything, they say, there is an increased hypersensitivity
toward ridding the community of offenders swiftly and openly. But
because of an inherent distrust in the secular legal system, a fear of a
destroyed reputation or an uncertainty of the evidence, another option
is needed. Their system offers those people who are reluctant to go to
authorities another channel through which to bring allegations that
otherwise would never be heard.” . . . "The moral weight of a Bais Din
can have a tremendous effect as an incentive for perpetrators to stop
their activity for fear of community sanctions,"
During the 2006 Agudath Israel of America conference, Rabbi Matisyahu Salomon
-- who is not only a highly respected teacher at Lakewood's Beth
Medrash Govoha yeshiva, he’s also the head spiritual advisor (mashgiach
ruchanai) -- and is one of the rabbonim who allegedly apply pressure not
to report suspicions of child abuse and neglect to authorities,
addressed the handling of sensitive matters such as sex crimes in the
context of criticizing anonymous bloggers.
"Yes, I would say we do sweep under the carpet sometimes," Salomon
said at a 2006 convention for Agudath Israel of America, a national
organization of Jewish leaders. "You know what we sweep under the
carpet? Not what we don't do; what we do. Do these people know how many
times perpetrators have been dealt with? Do these people know to what
extent one had to have the courage to stand up against public opinion in
order to make sure to protect our children? The only thing is, that was
swept under the carpet, because we protect human dignity . . . And
sometimes if the thing is not proven 100 percent, yes, we are guided by
the Torah . . . . we don't jump to conclusions but we are consequent."
In 2009 Rabbi Salomon reiterated “that perpetrators and predators must be punished, albeit not in the limelight."
In 2009 Rabbi Salomon reiterated “that perpetrators and predators must be punished, albeit not in the limelight."
In 2009 Rabbi Salomon reiterated “that perpetrators and predators must be punished, albeit not in the limelight."
According to psychologist, Michael J. Salamon, author of the book “ABUSE in the Jewish community”, "If you are a mandated reporter and you delay making a report you are contributing to the abuse of others."
A great example of the abuses and neglect of the community leaders in Lakewood include the story of Shua Finkelstein,
who was a survivor of sexual abuse who and lost his battle with a drug
addiction. Soon after his death a letter was discovered on his
computer, which was made public. A few weeks later on April 14, 2009
his families home was gutted by fire. Luckily no one was home. The
police report cited arson was the likely cause.
A great example of the abuses and neglect of the community leaders in Lakewood include the story of Shua Finkelstein,
who was a survivor of sexual abuse who and lost his battle with a drug
addiction. Soon after his death a letter was discovered on his
computer, which was made public. A few weeks later on April 14, 2009
his families home was gutted by fire. Luckily no one was home. The
police report cited arson was the likely cause.It wasn’t until Shua was 19 years old that he had enough courage to disclose to his mother that starting at the age of 6 he started being molested by and older male. After Shua’s death his mother Rivkah Finkelstein was asked why she didn't report the crime to the police. Rivkah responded by saying the idea of reporting didn't occur to her. Like many others living in communities like Lakewood, she was given the impression that by reporting the abuse she might increase the incidents of anti-Semitism or even start another pogrom. The message to community members was that it was best if issues like this were handled by the rabbonim. Eventually, Shua Finkelstein’s alleged offender was put into therapy. Yet no one knows if the therapist was someone trained in working with sexual predators.
Please help educate the parents in Lakewood along with other ultra-orthodox communities in New Jersey that if you suspect a child is being abused or neglected YOU ARE MANDATED to call 1-877-652-2873. If the child is in immediate danger, call 911 as well as 1-877 NJ ABUSE. A concerned caller does not need proof to report an allegation of child abuse and can make the report anonymously.
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