by Shalva Ben David
Aish Ha Torah - April 28, 2003
15,000 Jewish teenage girls, from impoverished or broken
families, have run away from home and are currently living with Arab men.
One woman is trying to do something about it.
Miriam Schwartz is worried about the future of the
Jewish people. It's not the terrorist attacks. It's not the failed Oslo accords.
Miriam Schwartz is afraid that many Jewish souls in the State of Israel are
being swallowed up by the Arab population.
Her concerns are fueled by the astonishing statistic
from a source in the Ministry of Labor and Welfare that 15,000 Jewish teenage
girls, from impoverished or broken families, have run away from home and
are currently living with Arab men. Mrs. Schwartz, a Jewish educator of over
20 years, is determined to fight this phenomenon by offering these teens
the chance to build new lives.
In an interview, Mrs. Schwartz said that she came across
this trend purely by accident. En route to deliver a lecture in Be'er Sheva,
she picked up a 12-year-old girl hitchhiking at the exit from Jerusalem.
During the course of their conversation, the young girl revealed that she
was living with an Arab and had persuaded a friend of hers to move in with
a friend of his. Mrs. Schwartz gave the young girl her phone number and was
not surprised when the girl contacted her for help a few months later.
After some investigation, Mrs. Schwartz learned that
Arab men frequently target girls from broken homes or impoverished families.
"In many cases the first contact takes place at a local grocery store, where
an Arab stock boy is working. At first he just offers the girl some candy
or a small toy. The next day the girl, who has no such luxuries at home,
comes back for another treat. Until now, the girl does not know that the
man is actually an Arab -- he poses as a Jew. After several months, and many
gifts, the Arab entices the girl to come and live with him. Initially, she
lives in the house as a daughter of the household, but when she becomes an
older teenager, she enters into a relationship with the man, and tragically
bears Jewish children who are raised as Arabs."
According to Mrs. Schwartz, this situation is nothing
less than a national emergency that calls for immediate action. "With 750,000
Israeli children living under the poverty line, many children are at
risk."
She reported that while these girls are treated reasonably
when they are still young, their status changes once they are older and have
borne children. Then they are treated more like slaves, but by that time,
the girls are too deeply entrenched in the household to leave.
Additionally, there is great potential for damage to
Jewish demographics in Israel. While a child born of a Jewish mother and
an Arab father is a Jew according to Torah law, s/he is an Arab according
to Arab tradition. Unless these young women are persuaded to take their children
and leave these Arab homes, this phenomenon will compound the increasing
gap that exists between the Jewish and Arab population.
After learning more about this worrisome trend, Mrs.
Schwartz formed the organization Yad B'Yad in order to bring these girls
back into the Jewish fold. This is, in fact, a two-part battle: persuading
the girls to leave their Arab household, and finding a totally new home for
them, since their biological parents are absent, uninvolved or unable to
raise them. As founder and director of Am Echad United, a grassroots organization
that promotes Jewish unity, she was familiar with the route a non-profit
cause must take, and lost no time in contacting potential donors in North
America as well as Welfare Minister Rabbi Shlomo Benizri in order to raise
funds.
Mrs. Schwartz's dream is to build an educational complex
with dormitory facilities in order to house these girls and enable them to
build new lives. However, dreams are accomplished in stages and her first
step was to rent out two houses in the center of Israel and settle the first
group of girls in gradually. Yad B'Yad assumes responsibility for the girls'
basic, immediate needs - food, clothing, shelter - as well as secondary needs
such as schooling and medical care. The local municipality provides psychologists
and social workers who are in constant contact with each girl. A housemother
will be living on the premises and Sherut Leumi (National Service) volunteers
will soon join the staff as youth advisors. Additionally, Mrs. Schwartz teaches
the girls about their Jewish heritage so that they will be motivated from
within to raise a Jewish family.
However, Mrs. Schwartz distinguishes between Jewish
heritage and Jewish law. "I'm against religious coercion. Girls who live
in our shelter do not have to observe the mitzvot. On the other hand, basic
ground rules must be observed. Drugs are absolutely forbidden at Yad B'Yad
and the girls must attend some type of educational institution."
Yad B'Yad does not accept a girl if there is a warrant
for her arrest, nor does it accept girls that are being forced there by an
outside authority. "The girls at Yad B'Yad come willingly," Mrs. Schwartz
notes. "They are motivated to start a new life."
Yad B'Yad also operates on the preventative level,
as Mrs. Schwartz explains, "I visit hang-outs in Tel Aviv, Holon and Jerusalem
at night and talk to girls at risk. I give them my phone number and tell
them that they can call me at any time. We give lectures to mothers to raise
awareness about the problem. We urge them to be mindful of their daughters'
whereabouts at all times and caution against sending a young girl to the
grocery store alone."
It's clear that there are many obstacles to overcome
in a project such as this. The financial costs of building an entire complex
alone are staggering. However, Mrs. Schwartz is undaunted and is proceeding
in stages. "This is a war we cannot afford to lose," she says. "It is a fight
for the Jewish future."
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